what kind of person attracts me...

i believe it is supposed to mean:
what kind of person i am attracted to..??

if not, oh well.
thats what im going for.

i would be lying if i said i have never made "the list".
you know what i am talking about...
everything that i look for in a future mate.
i know all of you have at least made a mental list of all the qualifications.
girls are picky, i know this.
we just look for something special...?

here are just a few of the qualities i believe are important to have in a significant other:

-honest...to themselves, others, and in their actions.
-kind hearted
-can make me laugh
-faithful
-loves kids
-intelligent
-understanding/non-judgmental
-reliable
-driven
-treats his mother with respect...how he treats her is an indication on how he will treat you!
-athletic
-financially smart
-open-minded
-reasonably spontaneous

these are just a few.
the thing with making a "list of qualifications" is that there is no point in looking for someone like that if I, myself, do not meet up to any of these standards. i know that boys make these lists too, whether they are willing to admit it or not, but it is definitely important to always remember that boys have these qualifications and are looking for specific qualities and characteristics, just like girls do.
so i guess this could be a self-help/man of my dreams list from now on.

nighty night. xoxo